Why do I stress organization, planning, and time-saving? What are we saving time for?

We lie in a world that emphasizes accomplishment. "Busy-ness" gets acclaim. People actually compete to one-up each other as to who is busier. Not having time is treated as a fashionable accessory — like a fancy watch or a great smartphone.

But do all the things we're busy doing really matter? Do we take time to rest and recharge and enjoy the fruits of our labors?

When was the last time you spent a sunny day sitting outside enjoying the air and reading a good book or playing with your kids?

When did you linger over a meal, chatting and enjoying the fresh flavors of the season with people you love?

When did you sit wrapped in an afghan with cup of tea to watch a movie?

When did you just chat with a friend about nothing important?

If you don't have time for these things, it's time to question what you are saving time for.