It seems like there were two choices on television yesterday: sports or 9/11 anniversary coverage. Full disclosure: I watched some of both. I started to think about what insights the 9/11 anniversary could give to the subject of this blog. Here's what I came up with:

Time spent with family and friends — both the formal fancy celebrations and the day-to-day interactions make the memories we cherish.

Never put off an opportunity to do a kindness or to show someone your love.

Keeping your life in basic order gives you the freedom to help others and enjoy good times.

Never miss a chance to celebrate. Saving things (a new dress, a special candle, the good chocolate, etc.) for an as-yet undetermined special occasion is not wise. Enjoy life as it comes. Don't wait for things to be perfect.