I'm hearing the same thing from a lot of people this year:  I just don't feel the Christmas spirit.  I just can't get excited about my preparations the way I normally do.

There doesn't seem to be a single reason: weather, work, the economy, etc.  For many people, the burden just seems to be outweighing the joy.

I won't pretend to have the solution, but here are some ways to approach the situation:

• What activities or events spark the Christmas spirit in you?  Whatever they are, do them!  It could be listening to Christmas music, watching a special movie, volunteering time with those less fortunate, or just drinking hot cider in front of a fire.
• Don't force yourself to do things that don't excite you.  If you don't want to put up a tree, don't.  If other people count on you doing certain things, enlist their help in accomplishing them.
• Spend some time thinking about the meaning of the season.  For some people, the meaning is predominantly religious.  If so, focus on the religious activities.  If Christmas for you is a holiday about family, prioritize family activities.  Basically, put your energy, limited as it is, behind those things that have meaning for you.
• Simplify.  The world will not end because you don't bake 8 varieties of cookies or wrap stacks of presents in handmade wrapping paper.  Moderate expectations and do what you feel you can.
• Giving back will always bring the greatest joy.  If you are having trouble getting excited about some aspect of the holiday, find a way to share it with someone.  Invite someone who will be alone to share your Christmas dinner.  Shop for Toys for Tots or something similar.  Help decorate a local shelter.  Sing Christmas carols at a retirement home.  Joy is contagious.  Maybe you'll catch it!